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Reflections on therapy, trauma recovery, relationships, and developing a kinder relationship with yourself.

Drama

16 Mar 2026

Why do conversations sometimes spiral into conflict or confusion? The drama triangle explains the roles we unconsciously fall into — Victim, Rescuer and Persecutor — and how to step out of the cycle.

The “Until” Person

6 Feb 2026

Do you put off enjoyment until everything is finished, sorted, or “deserved”? A reflection on the quiet rules we live by — and how awareness can gently loosen their grip.

Where do you go to my lovely.....

30 Jan 2026

When we are tired and stressed, our view of ourselves and others can quickly shift. This post explores the “I’m OK / You’re OK” life positions and how to notice them when they take over.